Happiness Is?
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July 15, 2008 |
 Well-spent leisure time can lead to great leaps in happiness: Activities that combine socializing and physical activity and require some moderate skills are the best (think salsa!).
Most of us spend a lot of our leisure time watching TV, which can be relaxing; but we'd be happier if we just went bowling.
Labels: Fun, Happiness, Relaxing |
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Women Need A Little More Daring
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June 24, 2008 |
 "Women are often encouraged to be silent or unobtrusive, to never risk being less than perfect. If we never take risks, we never fail; without risks we don't learn, don't make progress.
We need a little " daring" in our lives in order to feel heartbreak, sadness, regret, exhilaration, pride, love, rapture - the full range of human experience."
Labels: Daring, Exhilaration, Freedom, Fun |
| posted by speedquill @ 10:22 PM |
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The Kama Sutra On Kissing And More
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June 18, 2008 |
 IT is said by some that there is no fixed time or order between the embrace, the kiss, and the pressing or scratching with the nails or fingers, but that all these things should be done generally before sexual union takes place, while striking and making the various sounds generally takes place at the time of the union.
Vatsyayana, however, thinks that anything may take place at any time, for love does not care for time or order.
Labels: Fun, Kama Sutra, Kissing, Sex |
| posted by speedquill @ 3:34 PM |
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The Secret To Freedom
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June 17, 2008 |
 If there is one book you'll read this century this is it. It will give you a head start that trully sets you apart from your peers. It details the internet searches you need to take to become free.
Labels: Freedom, Fun |
| posted by speedquill @ 1:56 PM |
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Better Understanding Your Mind, The Subtle Art Of Framing
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 Everyone is at least aware of how the frame around a picture can totally change the look of it.
One of the key things that " frames" how a person thinks about us is what we say.
If we talk about negative stuff they have to think of that negative to respond to it. If we talk about positive things not only do they have to think of positives in their mind, we do as well.
Since like attracts like, this can be enormously helpful, as it shows a really beautiful inner you.
This subtle difference can literally change your life for the better. Labels: Frames, Fun |
| posted by speedquill @ 12:51 PM |
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Totally Organising Your Life
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June 16, 2008 |
 “When you have limitless funds, you tend to be hellbent on accumulating more,” says New York clinical psychiatrist Janet Taylor. “In the process, you lose the ability to appreciate what you do own and have difficulty feeling fulfilled.”
“Extra belongings weigh us down and crowd our space, making us feel overwhelmed and disorganized,” says Dr. Taylor. “Lightening up will help you regain control and, therefore, happiness.”
Labels: Fun, Happiness, Life |
| posted by speedquill @ 12:40 PM |
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Living A Full Life
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June 08, 2008 |
“If everything you did in life was safe, you’d never have any exhilarating moments or crazy experiences to recall, both of which give you the sense that you’re truly living,” Brian Luke Seaward, PhD Labels: Fun, Happiness |
| posted by speedquill @ 3:08 PM |
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Knowing Your Outcomes Today
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June 07, 2008 |
 An outcome frame provides a focus for what you want to achieve, the ensuing effects and the resources required to achieve it. You should set an outcome for all of your activities.
If you have not set an outcome for today and you meet a friend who has, then most likely your friend will enroll you to help him get what he wants.
And you may (silently or otherwise) get mad at him for taking advantage of you, when in reality you set the stage for what happened.
Labels: Achieving, Frames, Outcomes |
| posted by speedquill @ 10:41 AM |
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Interpreting Signals
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 Men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean.
It’s not fair to flirt with someone for the fun of it, unless they are obviously flirty themselves.
Labels: Attraction, Awareness, Responsiveness |
| posted by speedquill @ 12:41 AM |
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Enhance Relationship Success, Don't Be In Too Much Of A Rush To Marry.
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 The average age of a person in America when they get married is now about 26 years old. In general, the older a couple is, the greater the chance that their marriage will go the distance.
According to the National Center for Health Statistics, 59% of first marriages between couples who are years of age or younger end in divorce within the first 15 years, while only 35% of marriages between couples who get married at the age of 25 or older end in a divorce within that same time period. A few years makes a big difference. Labels: Commitment, Fun, Marriage |
| posted by speedquill @ 12:10 AM |
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The 30 Second Resume
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May 28, 2008 |
 Learn to sum yourself up gracefully in 30 seconds, have 3 or 4 storys that are short and dare I say 'sweet'. Storys that make you look good or storys about something else that leave the other person in a positive frame of mind.
Learn to give advice in one sentence. Don't overplay your hand keep it simple and cut right through all the BS. Why? Because no one else does.
Labels: Positive Mindset, Storys |
| posted by speedquill @ 8:30 PM |
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The Secret Of Making Your Eyes Sparkle When You Meet Someone For The First Time Part 1
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 Part of the secret of making your eyes sparkle is to shift your gaze from one eye to the other. However, while tantalising for your intended this does'nt allow you to fully appreciate this persons unique way of contacting the world.
A lot of our calibrations of what is real for a person we are speaking to and what is not, is gleaned from family ( generally a limited range) and television( also a limited range). So we need to look a bit deeper.Labels: Rapport, Responsiveness, Romance |
| posted by speedquill @ 1:59 PM |
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Guys Avoiding The Uncool, You Know You Just Don't Want To Admit It
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May 19, 2008 |
 Naturally many of these are wit written at the expense of the reader. So take them with a pinch of salt, though some are obvious.
Of course, an appropriate quote can be kind of fun: try having a conversation in quotes sometime, it can be hilarious. Of course, he said "she said, 'he said'", it goes without saying.
Speaking in code can be fun if you, matter of factly, let the other people in on the code.
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| posted by speedquill @ 11:49 PM |
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The Power Or Fresh Breath
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May 06, 2008 |
 “You can never underestimate the power of fresh breath – our research has proven that fresh breath gives you greater social confidence, and when you’re feeling confident, you are much more likely to interact positively with others and make a great impression,” Eclipse Brand Manager, Melinda Beattie said.
“Fresh breath also says a lot about the type of person you are – it communicates that you are considerate, healthy and in control,” Beattie
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| posted by speedquill @ 8:34 PM |
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Interesting Conversations Can Be Stimulating
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 Should we steer clear of obscure subjects or hot-button issues like politics. I say test it and see. Again, ask a casual open ended question that lets them talk freely about their opinions. Feel free to add or disagree.
If they start getting out of hand you can casually assert, " I was just testing you." If they ask "How did i do?" Smiling, you can say " It's OK , you can probably still make it up to me?"
For MoreLabels: Communication, Conversation, Listening |
| posted by speedquill @ 12:05 AM |
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The Debriefing After The Debriefing.
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May 01, 2008 |
 So you got lucky, and you've done the deed.
Now is the time to ask, not before ( self sabotage not allowed, slap your wrist, you know who I'm talking about.) Casually, " So what made you come back with me?"
With even a small amount of information you can quickly fine tune your seduction strategy.
Why wouldn't you want to get better.Labels: Flirting, Fun, seduction |
| posted by speedquill @ 11:58 PM |
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Figure out what you want
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 Ask yourself " What would your dream date be?" And " How would you like to flirt with them? Don't give in to disappointment, by being afraid of what they want. Dare to dream. Set your sights high. Think of what would make you happy, focus on it and hold it in your mind often.
Others will try to distract you and stay on path. Because it's about what would make your life better not theirs or what they think yours should be. Go for what is perfect for you?Labels: Goals |
| posted by speedquill @ 11:30 PM |
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